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The youth themselves need to have
the ability to opt out of things when the stress gets to high for
them.
- When lining up people to do a project or responsibility, use volunteers
- Publicly asking someone to do it, or worse, holding an election or accepting nominations is to risk having the wrong person be selected.
- If no one volunteers, this may be a sign that the project or responsibility is not one that the youth should be undertaking
- If the same people always volunteer, it is ok to say out loud “xxx is already doing a lot, how about someone else stepping up.”
- If no one volunteers, but you are confident it is doable and worth doing, wait until after the meeting and approach a good candidate, and ask them to consider it. If they look panicked or angry, back off.
- Sometimes the youth enters a need for moratorium after they are already committed. If you are aware that this is happening, approach them and ask if you can “help out” a bit. Do what you can to relieve the stress without the public being aware of it.
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