withdrawn and shy youth

For the withdrawn and excessively shy youth:

• Of course, don't harass or draw attention to them or push too hard.
  
• Use small groups which match this person with someone that is inclusive and sensitive.
  
• Find a special skill they have and use it, giving them public recognition for it.
  
• Find a special interest you can engage them and those around them in talking about.
  
• Let them be drawn in little by little – don't try to move too quickly.
  
• Is there a youth in the group that can act as a shepherd or guide for a shy friend?
  
• Can you get them to go on an overnight trip or retreat? (These make all the difference in the world!)