When a group is divided and fighting among themselves

When a group is divided and fighting among themselves, such as when the “Third Day Out Syndrome” is in effect, here are some group activities that can be used to help the group work through these problems. Use whenever tensions have reached a peak and the kids are being destructive within the group.

• Work on a large task that requires involvement of all -- do not get involved in the anger and name calling that may be going on, just insist that they finish the project as a group (and with minimal or no adult leadership).
  
• Scripture: (review I John 4:7-21 in light of the week's experiences); Exodus -- the grumbling passages.
  
• Discuss frankly but without a lot of name calling what you, as counselors, see happening within the group.
  
• Introduce a craft activity expressing feelings.
  
• Have a group building craft activity such as “friendship bracelets.”
  
• “Equalized relays” within the group or against another group or all other groups. These are a set of relay races that requires a balance of skills, there may be a math problem, a drawing competition, a musical event as well as an athletic activity. Each team member has something to contribute to success.
  
• Have the group pray for each member of group by name (but silently), going around the room, naming each person and allowing for silent prayer for that person.