Interruptions

In youth ministry classes I have done over the years I always had a line along the line of: "Programs and activities are what we do while we wait for an opportunity for ministry."  Often the interruptions and unplanned activities are what are important.  These are the serious, deep, spiritual conversations, the taking care of the youth in trouble or the family in crisis.  Sometimes they are simply the times when relationships are established or strengthened. 

Some hints:

• Always view interruptions as opportunities not distractions.  Kids are more important than programs.
• Recognize that the youth will not remember the program (except in rare situations) but they will remember when you were "there for them."
• Try to be expendable during planned programs and activities, so that you can step out of the event and take care of the ministry opportunity thrust upon you.
• Try to have leaders that won't fee abandoned if you disappear leaving them in charge
• When you are not in charge, don't take time off for your own interests or activities but look around for something/someone that needs to be cared for.