Toxic Charity #3.2: The values that come from helping others:

• Sometimes my group was able to do things others couldn't do. For example I had a number of computer whizzes in my group and even though it was not a part of the plan either for us or for the receiving agencies, twice, in different situations, they were able to recondition abandoned computers and network them, providing a significant service. One year an adult counselor who was a building contractor with specialized tools was able to take a few youth and do major construction in a Katrina devastated area.

Toxic Charity #3.1: The values that come from helping others:

• These trips often had life-changing effect on our youth. It is true that some quickly forget and return to crass materialism, but many do not. One youth actually moved to Mexico on finishing school and became a teacher, other changed the direction of their lives. More commonly, the youth went on with their plans but were forever more sensitive and aware of the issues of poverty and oppression. This is a big enough reason to keep doing these things!
  

Toxic Charity #3: The values that come from helping others:

Having listed problems with Mission trips I want to emphasize that these are no excuse for not doing Mission trips or works of charity. There is such an emphasis today on the down sides of helping that we might consider that to be politically correct. But, to quote Walter Brueggemann “When did compassion, concern for the poor and downtrodden become politicized?”  This is a basic part of the Judeo-Christian religions! We are not allowed to dismantle current ways of helping others until we find a better way. We can only improve or transition from one method to another, but always doing what we can individually and collectively.

Toxic Charity #2.6: Problems that can result from helping others:

Not allowing people who could do things themselves, to do so. Work together so that everyone learns how to do each skill. This actually cuts both ways, by working together my youth went home with new, enabling skills they learned from the local people and vice versa. But also, do not leave a concrete mixer without teaching the local people how to use it, care for it and repair it. You will also need to provide the financial means for maintaining such items after you have left otherwise there is no reason to bring it and use it.

Toxic Charity #2.5: Problems that can result from helping others:

• Helping agencies that I have worked with have said to me privately that the biggest benefit for both the recipient group and the “helping” group is the cross-cultural interactions among them. The relationships among the groups is helpful for all and gives both groups insights into the humanity of the others. I've seen amazing barriers and prejudices broken down – in both directions. This important need can be lost if:
  
  • If your group is so focused on the project that they push the local people away. There will always be other mission trip groups coming to finish the project. Becoming obsessed with “finishing” the project to the detriment of the relationships is toxic.
    
  • When there are breaks and meals, the two groups fall into two groups with no mixing between them.
    
  • The group's prejudices and cultural insensitivity build walls instead of bridge
    

Toxic Charity #2.4: Problems that can result from helping others:

Sometimes groups coming in can do more damage than help. Is the project they are undertaking within their skill set? Even amateurs can eventually learn to run an electric screwdriver, but can the group successfully frame out a house? At one work site, I toured a “dorm” that other groups had started. Most of it was going to have to be torn down: the concrete columns were full of holes from not being packed down when poured, and an outside, load-bearing wall was started from both ends and they did not come close to meeting in the middle. Those groups should have stayed home and sent money, or recruited someone who knew construction, or taken on a task appropriate for them (we built a non load bearing compound wall).

Toxic Charity #2.3: Problems that can result from helping others:

Sending/giving people stuff they don't need or want. After Katrina many churches and service organizations in our area gathered 18 wheelers full of clothes, shoes, etc. When our group got to New Orleans to do clean up and restoration we became aware that most of these things sent were moldering in warehouses. Unsorted, undistributed. There are several causes of this:

• • 18 wheelers were coming in from all over the country. Even if there hadn't been a disaster to occupy their time they could never have processed that much stuff.
    
  • A lot of what was sent was worn out or broken. They couldn't have been used.
    
  • Recipients needs are very specific items – size 6 etc. Finding what was needed when you didn't even have a place to live or water to drink would have been impossible.
    
  • If people are given the money or gift certificates to large stores (that exist in the place where the disaster struck) is much more effective. Giving to a disaster agency who make make things happen on the site is even better.
    
  • Even though people were “only trying to help,” giving people who have lost everything things them they don't want or need or giving them other people's castoffs, adds to their discouragement.