Perceptions

Differences in perceptions are an ongoing problem in life in general but especially in youth ministry.

• Perceptions by youth or parents may be negative or harmful and yet have no real basis in fact, but as far as they are concerned they are real. Simply saying they aren't true will not dissuade.
  
• I have seen a number of cartoons about the fact that no matter what your age the youth view you as old and their parents will view you as young (or, in my case, immature).
  
• It is hard to tell exactly what a person's perception of a situation is without asking. We can't read their minds. If their actions/reactions seem to not fit a situation or be an over-reaction, it may be from a misperception that can be cleared up.  Ask.