Peer pressure (yours)

All humans are subject to peer pressure. We can see it easily in the kids, but are we aware of our own? This is normal and ok as long as it is kept from adversely effecting our ministry. Do you recognize the amount and type of peer pressure you are under?

• How much do you care about how other youth workers in the area feel about you and your program? How much is compromised by wanting to impress others?
  
• Are you promoting a particular activity because it is the “in” thing among youth workers or because it is actually appropriate for your group.
  
• Do you look like every other youth worker? Clothes, hair, facial hair, shoes, …
  
• If you are with your kids in a setting where they see a group of youth workers, will they think you are just a clone or a unique person.
  
• On the other hand, having peers to talk to is important. Your situation is not unique and you can learn from other youth workers and can share frustrations and joys. Find or create a fellowship group of youth workers.